More About Me
Maybe you know about your Human Design and maybe you don’t. It’s ok. Here’s what I want to share with you, that feels important to acknowledge about mine.
After A Lifetime Of Experiencing Disappointment And Suffering/Pain In Love, I Have A Remarkable Propensity For Hope. This Includes Understanding Two Things:
- Change is possible.
- I am not for everyone.
Both of these come out of my unique human design.
As a single split 4/6 Projector, with emotional inner authority, I well understand the human experience of the impact of emotional suffering, both mine as well as many others’.
Although I never consciously set out to do so, I’ve had over 35 years of professionally studying the impact of trauma/human suffering on humans, as a trauma therapist who worked with children and their families.
I have, however, quite consciously explored it endlessly in my own life too, for over half a century – constantly searching for tools to use, not just to mitigate the experience of human suffering, but to heal it. To grow through and beyond it.
What’s beyond human suffering? Endless possibilities we know nothing about as yet.
The three tools I lean most into are those I offer here:
- EFT tapping,
- Hacking Reality
- Soul tones / Voice assessment
They all work with aspects of vibrational healing in the quantum field. The first part of that sentence is the most important: they all work.
It’s easier if you believe they will work, as there’s less resistance. But even if you don’t, as long as you’re willing to tap on your resistance, to clear away the beliefs and thoughts that are creating your resistance while you try them, they still work. Sometimes, that’s the perfect place to begin.
As A Projector, I Am ‘Built’ Differently Than 70 To 80% Of Humans
This includes my having had powerful conditioning, mostly by all the Generators and Manifesting Generators I grew up surrounded by. Everyone wants to belong – it’s part of our fundamental human experience. But instead, I grew up feeling like a geek, a freak, feeling some essential differences I could neither identify nor understand. No one else seemed to be able to understand them in me either. I felt like an alien, speaking a different language that others didn’t seem to hear or understand.
So, not fitting in, I felt compelled to try to be more like everyone else around me. Instead of helping me, sadly that only brought me more suffering and increased my need to understand. I am motivated by need, and my transference is fear. These aspects, along with being a Projector, all fueled my focus on finding changes to at least alleviate or reduce my suffering. My experiences of fear (living in my not-self) have been incredibly helpful teachers for me.
In many ways, it has not been an easy life for me. But because of the challenges, I’ve learned to ride the waves and develop some skills.
My Incarnation Cross: The Right Angle Cross of Service 3
The Right Angle Cross of Service 3 – my Incarnation Cross (which is about 70% of my human design) reflects my gifts in encouraging others to ‘get your stuff together.’
This means I am ‘here to serve’ – primarily myself individually, and then as a 6th line as a Role Model. Specifically I have a gift of exploring what isn’t working and, as a Role Model, can guide others forward into shifting, changing that into greater harmonic alignment (i.e. what works ‘better,’ in leading to joy). The energy of this weaving happens through two channels in my Human Design – the channel of judgment, integrated with the channel of understanding. The fourth part of my cross is the gate of trusting in divine or ‘right’ timing.
The nexus point of where these aspects of my human design come together creates a gift I have for seeing patterns. This gift assists me in this focus on seeing what needs to change, to shift away from fear-based living, towards greater joy. The central energy here is about correction – about seeing what needs to change, to make life better/ more joyful.
Understandably, this can be a challenging message to share with others – because not everyone is ready for, or wanting, correction. If it’s not invited or desired, my ability to see and share what could lead to greater joy, is not welcomed.
Here’s how that looks in my daily life in general…
I see things, patterns, that could result in improvement if adjusted. But I need to be invited to share that with others (big learning curve that has been, for me). For the longest time, I assumed others could also see what I saw, and would want to join me in clearing out the old patterns to create something new and more ‘functional.’
I’ve learned this truth the hard way: my energy can feel intense – it’s focused on creating powerful change. But only if invited. When I’m not invited, when people don’t resonate with what I offer, they don’t ‘see’ or ‘hear’ me. Usually, that has meant some version of emotional chaos has ensued, the manifestation of which is triggered by whatever they don’t want/aren’t ready yet, to look at. Let’s just say, that hasn’t been easy on either me or them.
So I’m learning (life’s an experiment, after all) to be ok with waiting to be invited in. For those who resonate with me and want what I offer, powerful and potent change is possible. I’ve seen some amazing changes in people. Some could be considered small miracles.
My Human Design and 2027
To be clear, I am not a Human Design analyst. Nor have I completed my first seven years in following my strategy and authority. However, I have had a lifetime of training in specifically focusing on the limitations that living in our conditioned not-self creates for us as humans. I’ve had decades of studying the impact of trauma on human consciousness. I recognize that where we’re heading next (in 2027) is a massive upgrade in the human operating system. And I have (imo) the absolute best tools to guide you forward (if it aligns with your strategy and inner authority) – tools that can easily and profoundly assist you in your deconditioning, to prepare for 2027 and beyond.
We (at least in my humble opinion) would all do well to prepare for this upcoming transformation as best we can. And that means deconditioning ourselves from the old limitations that have come from living in the (now-ending) old ways of being human.
I’ve structured this website to give a sampling of me to you
Aside from clear descriptions of the tools I use and my services, I’ve tried to also offer some tasty tidbits of areas I’ve explored, led by my interests/skills, in the realms of creating change. It’s all intended to give you some sense of me, to see if there’s some resonance between us for working together.
We humans are on the doorstep of co-creating and integrating vast changes in our human operating system. It’s an upgrade in love. But in order to experience it, we first need to clear out some of our old programming that keeps us stuck in old fear-based ways of experiencing, or at least perceiving, what’s possible.
You are most welcome to have a wander about my website. If what I offer resonates with you, I’d be honoured to ‘work’ with you. This focus really is my passion. I’ve included the possibility of a free 20-minute consultation, in case you think you’d like to see whether we ‘click.’ Or, if you feel you’d like to experiment with our collaborating to change something in your life, please do feel free to reach out and set up a session. I’d love to work with you, if that resonates with your own inner authority and strategy.
“Forget about thinking outside the box,
I live outside the straitjacket…”
The Mad Hatter, Alice in Wonderland
